Re: the problem cause by the paruresis
Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 12:46 am
You have to change your thoughts, do some meditation and see someone about it.
We do all feel the same way not wanting others to see us in a wrong way, but u have to think screw what you think of me" I dont care".
You should even pretend to go to the loo 2 times in the day. Or just tell them your problem.
When I told my wife it made going to the shops much easier for me, before that I felt she was judging me too, taking so long and going often.
Good luck mate
We do all feel the same way not wanting others to see us in a wrong way, but u have to think screw what you think of me" I dont care".
You should even pretend to go to the loo 2 times in the day. Or just tell them your problem.
When I told my wife it made going to the shops much easier for me, before that I felt she was judging me too, taking so long and going often.
Good luck mate