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by Derek
Sun Jul 25, 2010 5:55 pm
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: List of good toilets for exposure practice
Replies: 18
Views: 54870

Re: List of good toilets for exposure practice

McDonald's, Camden has two bowl urinals with high (2 metre) and wide dividers, with only one cubicle that was also relatively private. NO trouble there. This is a relatviely new Macca's, was not there 12 months ago when I was down there for the same reason (giving a university lecture to students). ...
by Derek
Sat Feb 20, 2010 10:20 am
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: penis enlargement surgery option
Replies: 8
Views: 31486

Re: penis enlargement surgery option

I don't wish to talk about the surgery option, rather address the other comment you made about having to give up relationships, and never having kids. This is a common thought process amongst paruretics, and often appears on the IPA website, www.paruresis.org It is just another one of our unfounded ...
by Derek
Wed Oct 28, 2009 3:51 pm
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: Going in for general anaesthetic / surgery
Replies: 5
Views: 19547

Re: Going in for general anaesthetic / surgery

G'day Rossco, The anaesthetic did not cause urinary retention, thank God! In fact, even after having a bag of IV fluids while under anaesthetic, I did not need to go to the toilet for a while - probably due to dehydration effects of GA. No problems with urination thereafter. The more uncomfortable p...
by Derek
Tue Oct 27, 2009 8:16 pm
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: Brisbane support group- Anyone interested?
Replies: 20
Views: 64830

Re: Brisbane support group- Anyone interested?

One would hope that after all this interaction that a Brisbane Support Group is finally up and running.
by Derek
Mon Oct 26, 2009 7:48 am
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: Perth support group
Replies: 1
Views: 8387

Re: Perth support group

Dasher,
There certainly is one.
Brisbane is the only capital city that doesn't have one yet.
Check out www.shybladder.org and then click on support groups, of which support groups in Australia are listed first - ie it is in alphabetical order.
Cheers Derek
by Derek
Mon Oct 19, 2009 2:37 pm
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: Newcastle Support Group now on!
Replies: 2
Views: 14069

Newcastle Support Group now on!

Dear all, It has been a long time coming, but myself and another Novocastrian sufferer of similar recovery levels, have initiated and are commited to a new support group in NSW's 2nd largest city. Both of us are reasonably recovered, about 70 - 80%, but need to push the boundaries further out of any...
by Derek
Mon Oct 19, 2009 2:25 pm
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: Going in for general anaesthetic / surgery
Replies: 5
Views: 19547

Re: Going in for general anaesthetic / surgery

Thanks for your thoughts John,
Fear of the unknown is often part of paruretic symptoms, which are often exaggerated in our own thought processes.
More concerned about the GA affects than anything else, however as you said they were minimal.
Derek
by Derek
Sat Oct 17, 2009 4:07 pm
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: Going in for general anaesthetic / surgery
Replies: 5
Views: 19547

Going in for general anaesthetic / surgery

G'day all, I am having some quite substantial oral surgery mid next week, under general anaesthetic for a couple of hours or so. I have never been under a proper gaseous G.A since I was a young child, which was before the onset of paruresis which occurred later on in Primary School. I am nowhere nea...
by Derek
Mon Aug 24, 2009 2:47 pm
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: Waterless Urinals
Replies: 4
Views: 14721

Re: Waterless Urinals

sms88, Thanks for your feedback on similar overseas situtations. As you may gather from my post, I am certainly NOT an "enviromentalist", and never will be. It seems that such situations, as you have described, may actually backfire in their original intent. The people that instigate such changes al...
by Derek
Fri Aug 21, 2009 5:03 am
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: Why is AP - The Secret Phobia
Replies: 1
Views: 9795

Re: Why is AP - The Secret Phobia

Hi Rossco, Why is AP a secret is both simple and complex. For a start, it ie "paruresis" has only recently been defined as a "clinical entity" in it's own right. I researced the topic, way back in the early-mid 1990's - even to the point of going through Medical Journals at the University of Sydney ...