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- Thu Jul 07, 2016 7:23 pm
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: The conversation: Caught short: we need to talk about public
- Replies: 1
- Views: 13171
Re: The conversation: Caught short: we need to talk about public
Interesting, local councils, buildings and shopping centres are only concerned with the provision of public toilets, or whether or not they have to be provided. There is no legislation dictating design, or whether they have to have adequate space (cubicles and urinals) to cope with the traffic flow....
- Sat May 14, 2016 10:08 am
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: Urologist Flow Study
- Replies: 10
- Views: 41829
Re: Urologist Flow Study
Hi Ross, How did you go with surgery to open up our urethra? I had to do this test before about 10 years back and they found out my flow was equivalent to a 50/60 year old man (I was in my early 30's at the time). Apparently I have an unusual shaped urethra which is quite narrow and effects the str...
- Sat May 14, 2016 9:47 am
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: The danger of secrets
- Replies: 8
- Views: 55864
Re: The danger of secrets
Hi there all, I recently discovered this website and I am glad to be here amongst you all. I first learned about paruresis online close to 16 years ago. Back then I had immediately ordered the book by Dr Soifer and other authors. What happened back then was that just learning about it and not feeli...
- Fri Jul 31, 2015 8:53 am
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: Random Drug Test Issues
- Replies: 1
- Views: 12101
Re: Random Drug Test Issues
At my place of employment, employees can be subjected to random drug tests. (not myself though as I am in the government section). This is not as random as it first appears, and employers can act on "tip offs" that somebody may be a regular drug user. They tend to use the disabled toilet, where some...
- Fri Jul 31, 2015 8:38 am
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: Perth Sufferers?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 12008
Re: Perth Sufferers?
There is a Perth group, listed on the Shy Bladder section of the IPA:
http://paruresis.org/support-group-list/
http://paruresis.org/support-group-list/
- Wed Oct 08, 2014 6:21 pm
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: Correct information & early help vital
- Replies: 2
- Views: 12380
Re: Correct information & early help vital
Whilst I agree in theory to many of your assertions, one must still endeavour to improve to adapt to the society they live in, and that means practicing at reduced levels of privacy. Once you can use urinals reliably in practice situations (fluid loaded and in known toilets), going back to cubicles ...
- Thu Jun 20, 2013 9:26 pm
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: is a physchologist helpful for severe paruresis
- Replies: 8
- Views: 27091
Re: is a physchologist helpful for severe paruresis
Psychs dont help the situation, they look down on ya, like it dont exist, just like the doctors, dont go to them bro, waste of time, dont give them the satisfaction. Peace, Jonno I don't think they help a lot, but they are not deliberately unhelpful either. This is mainly a behavioural and poor con...
- Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:24 pm
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: Update on my path
- Replies: 4
- Views: 18218
Re: Update on my path
Thanks for the advice sort of wanted to be at this level for a long time see it as a faster path so too lose it again i would hate myself Some regression is inevitable when recovering, the key is not to beat yourself up over it. Just say, "'I know what that is, that's called a misfire."". This triv...
- Sun Feb 10, 2013 5:31 pm
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: Interesting Article today
- Replies: 1
- Views: 11966
Interesting Article today
All, have a look at this article: http://www.smh.com.au/opinion/society-and-culture/ladies-the-losers-in-loos-lotto-20130209-2e4yr.html Although written from a female perspective and more about lack of toilets in public venues, it skirts around the issue of Shy Bladders, without getting into the rea...
- Sun Oct 14, 2012 7:03 am
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: New milestone
- Replies: 3
- Views: 16600
Re: New milestone
Well done, sports stadiums and situations like travelling usually present the most trouble to AP'ers.
Sometimes you are better off using survival modes in these circumstances, and continue working on recovery strategies under more favourable conditions.
Sometimes you are better off using survival modes in these circumstances, and continue working on recovery strategies under more favourable conditions.