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- Fri May 17, 2013 9:27 pm
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: ADHD or ADD and shy bladder
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ADHD or ADD and shy bladder
Hello all, I went to a shrink the other day to be reassessed for my ADD medication. I blurted out (I guess in the right place at the right time) that I have shy bladder. To my relief the shrink calmly said it is to some part a result of having ADD. To those who may not know, to have ADD is to be sup...
- Mon May 06, 2013 9:42 pm
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy
- Replies: 6
- Views: 26675
Re: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy
You are right John, If you are more relaxed you have better success, So I have taken the level back a notch to reduce the pressure. I had been trying too hard of late to keep up appearances in front of a urinal that each time I needed to go was not relaxed and i felt nervous. (still only able when a...
- Thu Dec 20, 2012 7:35 pm
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy
- Replies: 6
- Views: 26675
Re: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy
Ok So update time. I went for a 4the session. The storyline I went through was to tap into the old days at school when I could go at the urinal fine. It revolved around the pleasure of being able to wee on the wall and the fun of squirting all over the wall. Unfortunately this did not benefit me at ...
- Wed Oct 24, 2012 11:41 am
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: New milestone
- Replies: 3
- Views: 16599
Re: New milestone
Yes drinking enough alcohol was the only way I was able to go in my nightclub days, but never in a urinal, stall only.
its always a few steps at a time
its always a few steps at a time
- Thu Oct 04, 2012 11:48 pm
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: New milestone
- Replies: 3
- Views: 16599
New milestone
Well a test was made for me this weekend just gone. I have not been to a football grand final ever due to the 80,000 other people around also wanting to use the loo that I will need to use. And knowing you will be there for about 5 hours I have always avoided them. So I didn't use the wee wall as I'...
- Thu Sep 20, 2012 10:47 pm
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: I need some advice
- Replies: 8
- Views: 27858
Re: I need some advice
I have to say I notice that many people go into a stall with open door and never use a urinal, I think that is possibly why the started putting dividers in urinals I'm trying to master the urinal but only succeed 60% of the time and only if no body is around. Seated versus standing, seated is easies...
- Thu Sep 20, 2012 10:33 pm
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy
- Replies: 6
- Views: 26675
Re: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy
Ok session 3 results. After this session the lady said see how you go, in other words this last session shoul be all that's needed. I believe more will be required. however my thoughts after this session are that I find myself thinking about my shy bladder less and less. The few days after at a stal...
- Tue Aug 21, 2012 12:46 am
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: the problem cause by the paruresis
- Replies: 11
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Re: the problem cause by the paruresis
You have to change your thoughts, do some meditation and see someone about it. We do all feel the same way not wanting others to see us in a wrong way, but u have to think screw what you think of me" I dont care". You should even pretend to go to the loo 2 times in the day. Or just tell them your pr...
- Tue Aug 21, 2012 12:19 am
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy
- Replies: 6
- Views: 26675
Re: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy
Well last week I had my second session. I am now halfway to my next. I still can't pee in the urinal in front of anyone, no surprise really only 2 into 5 sessions. The differences are that I don't think about where when I will have to go and whether I can nearly as much as I used to :D . When I do s...
- Wed Aug 08, 2012 8:54 pm
- Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
- Topic: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy
- Replies: 6
- Views: 26675
Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy
Hi all I have been slowly getting better to the point I can 90% of the time freely use a stall. When there is only one and a line it takes a lot longer but I do succeed in the end. I have hit a brick wall where urinals are concerned in public. Any hint of someone around I have no ability, however I ...