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by Damian
Fri May 17, 2013 9:27 pm
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: ADHD or ADD and shy bladder
Replies: 0
Views: 9209

ADHD or ADD and shy bladder

Hello all, I went to a shrink the other day to be reassessed for my ADD medication. I blurted out (I guess in the right place at the right time) that I have shy bladder. To my relief the shrink calmly said it is to some part a result of having ADD. To those who may not know, to have ADD is to be sup...
by Damian
Mon May 06, 2013 9:42 pm
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy
Replies: 6
Views: 10579

Re: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy

You are right John, If you are more relaxed you have better success, So I have taken the level back a notch to reduce the pressure. I had been trying too hard of late to keep up appearances in front of a urinal that each time I needed to go was not relaxed and i felt nervous. (still only able when a...
by Damian
Thu Dec 20, 2012 7:35 pm
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy
Replies: 6
Views: 10579

Re: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy

Ok So update time. I went for a 4the session. The storyline I went through was to tap into the old days at school when I could go at the urinal fine. It revolved around the pleasure of being able to wee on the wall and the fun of squirting all over the wall. Unfortunately this did not benefit me at ...
by Damian
Wed Oct 24, 2012 11:41 am
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: New milestone
Replies: 3
Views: 5100

Re: New milestone

Yes drinking enough alcohol was the only way I was able to go in my nightclub days, but never in a urinal, stall only.

its always a few steps at a time
by Damian
Thu Oct 04, 2012 11:48 pm
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: New milestone
Replies: 3
Views: 5100

New milestone

Well a test was made for me this weekend just gone. I have not been to a football grand final ever due to the 80,000 other people around also wanting to use the loo that I will need to use. And knowing you will be there for about 5 hours I have always avoided them. So I didn't use the wee wall as I'...
by Damian
Thu Sep 20, 2012 10:47 pm
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: I need some advice
Replies: 8
Views: 9794

Re: I need some advice

I have to say I notice that many people go into a stall with open door and never use a urinal, I think that is possibly why the started putting dividers in urinals I'm trying to master the urinal but only succeed 60% of the time and only if no body is around. Seated versus standing, seated is easies...
by Damian
Thu Sep 20, 2012 10:33 pm
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy
Replies: 6
Views: 10579

Re: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy

Ok session 3 results. After this session the lady said see how you go, in other words this last session shoul be all that's needed. I believe more will be required. however my thoughts after this session are that I find myself thinking about my shy bladder less and less. The few days after at a stal...
by Damian
Tue Aug 21, 2012 12:46 am
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: the problem cause by the paruresis
Replies: 11
Views: 14017

Re: the problem cause by the paruresis

You have to change your thoughts, do some meditation and see someone about it. We do all feel the same way not wanting others to see us in a wrong way, but u have to think screw what you think of me" I dont care". You should even pretend to go to the loo 2 times in the day. Or just tell them your pr...
by Damian
Tue Aug 21, 2012 12:19 am
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy
Replies: 6
Views: 10579

Re: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy

Well last week I had my second session. I am now halfway to my next. I still can't pee in the urinal in front of anyone, no surprise really only 2 into 5 sessions. The differences are that I don't think about where when I will have to go and whether I can nearly as much as I used to :D . When I do s...
by Damian
Wed Aug 08, 2012 8:54 pm
Forum: General Paruresis Discussion
Topic: Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy
Replies: 6
Views: 10579

Well I'm going to try Hypnotherapy

Hi all I have been slowly getting better to the point I can 90% of the time freely use a stall. When there is only one and a line it takes a lot longer but I do succeed in the end. I have hit a brick wall where urinals are concerned in public. Any hint of someone around I have no ability, however I ...